Our previous counseling experience was ridiculous. The person assigned to us was not getting us anywhere. We were referred to Reigning Peace Ministries by a few people and thought we should give it a try or we would be done.
God and KC and Ron worked on us during this time to figure out the root issues and how to forgive each other and how to go forward. We often revert to unhealthy patterns but with the tools we were given the insight into our own motives becomes clear. I am a very fast processor my husband is not so we approach things in a different way. Both ways are fine just different, this was new information after thirty years together .You can always learn no matter whatever time in your life you’re in.
Communication with mediation is the best .We did need help seeing into our own selfish views(the I want to win this one, or I want to blame someone,or I want others to see I’m right) These desires are in most of us. We must identify our own sin. Not our mates. The best thing for me was knowing Gods grace, how much he forgives us and we can forgive ourselves and others whether they desire it or not. HE does work all things for our good, even tough stuff. Just work for it.
We’re still together. Thanks Ron and KC.